We often expect to see people as the already perfect created being that God sees us as. Or we try to be that perfect being ourselves.
WE ARE NOT GOD!
We are not perfect but we are a Good Work in Progress! It is very easy to be critical of ourselves or one another for not being the "end product" but we have the perfect outline to follow made by the Perfect Man, the Perfecter Himself, Jesus Christ! Until we all meet again in Heaven will we be able to expect perfection from ourselves and one another. In the mean time we can expect perfect Peace from the One who is.
Romans 12:3 NLT
Because of the privilege and authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us.